You know, it's been a rough year here for me. Home life hasn't been the most wonderful for us because so many "experiences" we didn't want to deal with have come up while I was away. When you are 2,000 miles away, it's not the easiest to just hop in a car and get there in a few hours, much less get on a plane immediately and be there in 8. For me, it's at least a full day and about $1500!
When making the decision to come up here alone, I looked at the state of everyone at home. Everyone included our "fur kids" too. I didn't expect to have my husband have to put one of our dogs down in November without me there. I knew that he was old, but honestly, I didn't expect him to get so bad before the school year was up.
When we took Ryan (pictured here) in for a teeth cleaning, we sure didn't expect him to come back with really high liver enzyme levels either. We knew he had a mass on his leg they were going to look at and some skin tags on his elbow to remove, but the super high enzyme levels, that cancer word tossed out as a possibility. (We know what that can mean) This here I'm sure caused lots of worry for my husband as, well he might not admit it, but this is his FAVORITE "fur kid." Again, when you are 2,000 miles away, an expensive plane ride, and at least 24 hours from being home, there's not a lot of comfort that can be given in a Skype hug.
Crying together doesn't help. Words can only go so far. I'm not sure we were prepared to deal with so many "big events" this year.
The good news though, is with the treatments, the teeth finally being cleaned and the tumor removal (which was not cancerous!), we can rest easy for awhile and enjoy Ryan and his faithful personality. Eric and I have rescued him twice. Once from Hopes Haven, where they had him so he would be away from the abusive situation he was in and now from some medical situations. He in turn has rescued us many times over. Each time he "talks back" and puts a smile on my husband's face, snuggles in close for a hug, or just protects by being close. We know he loves us for who we are and I know he's saved my husband from being so lonely while I am gone.
We love our Ry-Ry :)
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